Growing up I didn't watch a lot TV. However, seeing kids about my age on TV was a very huge motivation for me. There was this kids group that I loved, to that little me, their songs were 'badass'. They were #goals.
A couple of days ago, I took out time to reminisce and I watched a couple of those 'badass' songs and well, I just sat with a huge grin on my face.
I'm not about to put any group down but I sat there thinking, 'so why were they #goals?'
Everyone on social media now seems to have some sort of #goals. There are a variety of them,
#relationshipgoals
#squadgoals
#spiritualgoals
..the list goes on.
I'm big ups on goal setting because they help define your life but I was listening to Steven Furtick's sermon yesterday and he asked a question that hit home for me.
'Are you setting the right goals?'
It's one thing to set goals and achieve them, it's another thing for them goals to be the right ones.
A lot of people are just going around with the wrong goals in their mind.
Goals define the course of your life so if you are going around with the wrong goals in your mind, you would eventually arrive at a destination but it would indeed not be one aligned with your purpose.
Kids are often attracted to things that are bright and colourful, they will almost always crawl towards anyone as along as they are presented with something 'bright and beautiful', extra points if it makes some sort of sound.
Are we now kids?
Running after everything that is bright and beautiful?
What happened to checking it out to see how real it is?
Have we gagged down a cup of poison because it smelled 'nice'?
Are we just labelling things as our goals just because they make the loudest noise?
All too often, the things that we've tagged #goals are just beautifully painted cadavers.
Am I thus saying not to look up to anyone or to not have some sort of goals, NO. But instead of tagging every other thing a goal, and instead of running after everything that is beautifully painted, how about we check the tree, check out the fruits.
Growing entails you coming to the realization that you cannot walk on just any path, it includes that you discover who you are and what your path is. Thus, your goals are not just superficial but are aligned in accordance with your purpose.
What or who are your #goals? Are they in line with your purpose?
-Kaydo


