There's pressure everywhere. From 'friends' to 'family' to even 'yourself'. There's this unspoken and sometimes spoken standard of what you should look like, speak like, wear, when you should get married, wait, I think I got too fast, there's even pressure on when you should have a boyfriend, hmm!
But how low can you go?

Your life is special, you are unique! The fact that someone had some sort of achievement at a particular age doesn't mean that you have to struggle to fit into their lifestyle! When all your energy is channeled towards aligning your life to be exactly like some other human, then there is some error. You're going for less than you are worth.
But how low can you go?

This doesn't mean that you shouldn't dream or that you shouldn't get inspiration from people. This is not to say that you can't look at a fellow lady's life and be inspired by her achievement. This, rather, is to say that you CAN and SHOULD be an original.
There's always going to be pressure but how low can you go?

Sometimes in the bid to align your life with that of the people around, there is the possibility that you begin to find your worth in the words spoken to you by some guy. You allow yourself be sweet talked into believing that all you're worth is some amount of money.
Girl, REALLY?
Common now, you're worth more! You're worth more than money, clothes, gadgets, and every other thing anyone could offer you but how low can you go?

 Life may be tough but you are definitely TOUGHER. It doesn't matter what people say about you neither does it really matter what level your 'friends' expect you to live from. Girl! It's your life!

 We live for an audience of one; 'GOD'.

Don't allow anyone talk you down and say you are not beautiful enough because you are enough!

 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.   Psalm 139:14 

God made you special, He made you an original, stop striving to be some copy of someone else. He made you for high places so don't stoop to a place lower than He created you for.

"...The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body."

1 Corinthians 6:20 MSG

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