Raise your hand if you ever put stuff, preferably a pillow, under your blouse, dress, etc, to pretend like you're pregnant. Okay, yeah, all the ladies, put your hands down. Haha

If you know me, then you know that I am obsessed with babies. I am definitely looking forward to the journey of raising my babies. Now everyone knows that before the babies comes the bump or, wait, you get me, huh!

I follow this page BABYOLOGY and one of their posts was about two friends who had different sizes of baby bumps.

Everyone's bump is different, some may be huge and others a little smaller but the fact that our bump sizes are different doesn't change the fact that we are pregnant.

Sometimes what we do to ourselves is go around and compare our bump sizes and because you're not as big as someone else we beat ourselves up. 
We compare our lives, the rate at which we grow, develop, bloom, with everyone else.


No dear, we are all pregnant, our babies are growing. Just nurture and groom it and enjoy every bit of the growing process.

Your bump is beautiful, big or small.
-Kaydo

This is too much emotion for me to deal with at the moment. As I watched them call names and each one of the graduating students climbed up to collect their diploma, my eyes filled with tears but I held them back. This year's set of Doctors are just too amazing. 
This is me just showing my love to them for the time we've spent together. This is my letter to every of the latest doctors.

Dear Doctor,

Finally the sleepless nights have paid off. The last 6 years have shown their worth. Slowly, the seconds have added up to be years and now you're here. Face to face with the diploma you dreamt of and you finally can correctly add a Dr in front of your name and allow all of it's pride sink in.
Oh the dreams you dreamt. Dreams you dreamt with your eyes open for the world of sleep couldn't contain them. Sleep you sacrificed on the altar of anatomy in first year, biochemistry in second you, pharmacology in third year...

The last 6 years have brought you experiences; good, bad, ugly, beautiful. Look around you, see the people that you met, the mentors you did get, the footprints that you left and indeed the inspiration that you beget.

The last 6 years have been more than just getting that diploma or learning how to detect a glaucoma or the early stags of carcinoma. It was also about building that supernova persona while building bridges with the lives around.

Dear Dr,
As you step out of this comfort zone of medical school into a world where many with chameleon like smiles on their face expect you to fail. As you begin this new phase with no idea of what may happen. As you take the next step in your dream's direction. As you follow the path of your life, be courageous.
I did want to say, be not afraid but the truth is that you'll feel fear, you'll get scared, you'll get hurt and hurt again.Your feet may give way and the ground may not hold but when these happen, be courageous.

Hold these moments in your hand, occasionally stare at the sky and see the motion picture of the past victories. Be COURAGEOUS, for the ability for you to succeed is inherent, it is within you.
So, even if you decide to do strictly medicine or choose to add a side hustle, know this, that you are already a SUCCESS.


With Love,
A little brown gurl who's heart has been inspired by yours.
Kaydo

What's up lovelies!!!!
It's finally summer break.
Exams are finally over!!! I can finally sleep. Yes sleep is all that matters as far as my summer break is concerned. lol.



Asides sleeping, summer is a time where you can invest in yourself, develop your skills, learn a new skill and overall be a better version of yourself.

This however can be difficult since there is nobody pushing you around and really no incentive,
It takes a lot of planning and discipline to get the best out of it.




For me, I'd be reading a couple of books and I'm starting with Steven Furtick's 'UNQUALIFIED' and then Sarah Jakes Robert's 'LOST and FOUND'. They are both favourite speakers of  mine and I hope to both enjoy and learn as I read their books.

What are you doing to bring out the best version of yourself?
Have a wonderful summer break!!

p.s Guess who got a makeover? :D What do you think?
-Kaydo 

Growing up I didn't watch a lot TV. However, seeing kids about my age on TV was a very huge motivation for me. There was this kids group that I loved, to that little me, their songs were 'badass'. They were #goals.

At the begininng of the year, I decided that I wouldn't allow the enemy steal my joy. It started off quite easy, based on all the hype but after a while it became a tad difficult.
One thing that has kept me going is my dependence on God.
The joy that the Holy Spirit gives is indeed overwhelming. His peace is beyond comprehension.

I'm surprised at how fast time is flying, just like that we are in June. God has being faithful and I am sure that He will remain faithful to His word.

One word that has held me up is Jesus' words to His disciples. "..in this world you will have many tribulations but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world"

In JUNE, no matter what comes your way, BE OF GOOD CHEER.
Lemme take this minute and preach,
'Come on now, touch you neighbour and say, 'Neighbour! Be of good cheer'.
Tell three people next to you, 'Be of good cheer!!!'.
The truth is that trials will come, people will step on your toes, life will hit you hard, mess you up and things may not go as you plan but you've got to cheer up.


Now, you may ask me, 'why should I be of good cheer when life is hitting me hard?' Jesus already said that He has overcome the world. When you come to realization that the ONE living on your inside has already overcome the world, when you begin to see how much more than a conqueror you are, your perspective changes. You cheer isn't determined what going on around but from within you, from the conqueror on your inside.

Stuff may happen but we know that ALL things work together for the good of they that LOVE the LORD.

Since we are still on the growth series, one way to grow is to not just depend on your ability and your strength because they can wane but to depend on He who is stronger, the overcomer!

Have a CHEERFUL June!!
It's Kaydo

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