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Well, that most often is the case with us, just, from a different perspective.

We think;

every one's looking, every one's talking about me and gradually it graduates to they're hating on me.

The truth is that most of the time, no one is looking at you. We're just being self-conscious.
We care so much about the opinions of others that we begin to create stuff in our head to satisfy our cravings.

What if people are actually looking??
Do what you need to do anyway!

See, you CANNOT please everyone!!! Even if you try, you'll end up losing yourself in the process.

We have all being given individual purposes and goals. We have our paths, our lanes and although they may cross with those of others every now and then, it's important to know that your path is not totally dependent on them.

Whether you succeed or fail is largely dependent on YOU.
Stop wondering if people are looking or not, don't be afraid to do what you have been called to do.
Step out in faith and fulfill purpose because either way, people are going to talk; you might as well give them something good to talk about.


Have a blessed week!
Remember; "today belongs to YOU"
It's Kaydo <3

I just want to talk to someone who has a  dream on their inside, someone who has a set goal that they want to achieve. I just want to talk to someone who has a picture of their desired future in their imagination. I just want to say, no matter what picture the now seems to be presenting, no matter how far fetched your future looks like, don't give up on your dreams, don't give up on you! Believe in you even when nobody else does. Be your biggest supporter!


The fact that you could dream it means that there's a part of you that finds it achievable, there's a part of you that thinks you can make it. Hold on to that part of you so that on days when it seems like there's no need to continue chasing your dreams, you draw strength from within you.
Let me tell you, by the way, its not going to be all smooth and cozy. There are days when you'll just want to give up and let go but don't! Don't give up on yourself. There's so much that you can be, there's so much that you can achieve but you'll never achieve anything if you give up.
It's not like I've arrived though but on my way here, there where times when it just didn't seem like there was any reason to continue, when it just seemed like starting was a mistake and seemed much more like, continuing would be a bigger mistake. I could have just succumbed to the pressure from within but what I did was, remind myself why I started off in the first place. I actually have posters on the wall of my room that remind me who I am and why I do what I do. These things just help keep me focused, they help keep me motivated to do more. You have to keep reminding yourself why you started. You have to continually fuel your passion. This is because the society will give more than enough reasons to quit, it will give more than enough points to prove that you are not good enough, it would want to convince you that your goals are just an illusion. That's why like I mentioned earlier, you must decide to draw strength from within you. You strength shouldn't be tied to what you see with your physical eyes because it may be that what the eyes of your mind see is different.
Finally in the words of one of my favourite singers, Sinach, "You ca be anything you want to be, you can achieve all your dreams if you only believe!" Just believe in you and hold on to your future! Don't allow anybody steal it from you. Don't tell me that you've nothing to work with in order to achieve your goals because you've got today! Take it, harness it, invest in it and create your desired future.
I believe in you!!